Beautiful and Still Have A Point?
𝑰 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝑵𝑬𝑽𝑬𝑹 𝒃𝒆𝒆𝒏 𝒊𝒏 𝒂 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒑 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒎𝒚 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒏𝒆𝒓 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒕𝒓𝒖𝒍𝒚 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒅 𝒐𝒇 𝒎𝒆, 𝒔𝒖𝒑𝒑𝒐𝒓𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒎𝒆, 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒔𝒏’𝒕 𝒕𝒐𝒙𝒊𝒄 & 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒖𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒓𝒐𝒐𝒎 𝒊𝒏 𝒊𝒕 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝑴𝑬!
It just so happens that this morning I heavily get in a discussion on one of Sean Whalen’s posts AND THEN….he & his wife Sax come out blazing with a podcast this morning I‘ve had experience with.
There is a VERY FALSE BELIEF in society that a woman cannot be 𝐁𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐮𝐥, 𝐈𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐭 & 𝐎𝐮𝐭𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐤𝐞𝐧.
There is also A TON of hate towards anyone who achieves their goals & does exactly what they’ve set out to do!
I was getting my looks and age ripped apart by grown men that couldn’t handle my ability to back up my opinion with absolute fact.
I was instantly ”a grandma”
My crows feet were mentioned
My tattoo was called “a tramp stamp”. (By a man with tattoo sleeves btw)
I was instantly someone who wears too much makeup
I was instantly someone who couldn’t pull Andrew Tate, Donald Trump, or Dan Bilzerian
There had to be something wrong with me & I needed to be put down because I couldn’t look like me, be me, & have a valid point at the same time.
My family does the same thing. I’ve had friends do the same thing.
My hair is my hair. I don’t have extensions
I don’t color my hair. It’s my natural color
I don’t get my nails done anymore
My eyelashes are mine, unless professional photos & makeup are done.
I’m 45 & a half years old, have given birth to 5 children & the last 3 were triplets. I was over 200lbs for a VERY long time.
People ask me how I do it every day & tell me they’re inspired when they see the change in me since the lockdown 3 years ago.
I now have clients & coach people because my journey was watched. If Facebook & my career would allow it….I’d show way more of myself to inspire people, like me, who want more for themselves!
If you want something, get up & get it! The evil eye & shade you throw say way more about you and what you wish you had or could have done, but wouldn’t or didn’t.
Go Get the relationship! Go Get the body! Go Get the career & money!
𝑸𝒖𝒊𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝒘𝒊𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒂𝒘𝒂𝒚 & 𝒅𝒓𝒐𝒑 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒆𝒙𝒄𝒖𝒔𝒆𝒔!