No Woman will Judge you for “The Blue Pill”

𝑵𝒐 𝒘𝒐𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒈𝒐𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒐 𝒋𝒖𝒅𝒈𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒖𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈 “𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒃𝒍𝒖𝒆 𝒑𝒊𝒍𝒍.”

𝐻𝑂𝑊𝐸𝑉𝐸𝑅…．𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑟𝑒 𝑚𝑎𝑦 𝑏𝑒 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑒𝑚𝑜𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑠 𝑖𝑓 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑝𝑟𝑜𝑏𝑎𝑏𝑙𝑦 𝑠ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 ＆ 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑑𝑜𝑛’𝑡．

We don’t care if you need it honestly. Swear !!! In this area, we are results driven…not process driven Meaning, we don’t care how lift off happens…we just gotta figure it out.

I’m going to give some real life examples of what not to do, what to do, AND a how I caught a cheater bonus Because I’m here for you in that way at all times!

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐍𝐎𝐓 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲:

𝐿𝑒𝑡’𝑠 𝑗𝑢𝑠𝑡 𝑓𝑟𝑎𝑚𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑢𝑝 𝑏𝑦 𝑠𝑎𝑦𝑖𝑛𝑔, 𝐼 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒𝑛’𝑡 𝑠𝑢𝑐𝑐𝑒𝑠𝑠𝑓𝑢𝑙𝑙𝑦 𝑏𝑒𝑒𝑛 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑐𝑒 𝐿𝑎𝑏𝑜𝑟 𝐷𝑎𝑦 2020． 𝑀𝑦 𝑛𝑖𝑐𝑘𝑛𝑎𝑚𝑒 𝑖𝑠 “𝑇ℎ𝑒 𝑁𝑢𝑛” 𝑖𝑛 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑐𝑖𝑟𝑐𝑙𝑒𝑠．

So, March 20th, 2021 I decided a 6 month dry spell was sufficient…. God did not. . This date was epically horrible, because we knew some of the same people, I pushed through the pain.

Cut to the relevant part of the story…. I’m pretty inebriated…we are at his home in the Heights. Multiple rounds of me being very nice to him from roughly 11pm - 2am. By 2am I’m no longer buzzed & I realize…finally…absolutely nothing is going to happen. When I’m deciding to go, I get blamed for why things didn’t happen. I’m mentally & emotionally messed up, & it probably takes another 6 months to untangle who’s issue the situation actually was.

DO NOT be too proud to admit you need the blue pill. It’s really mean if it’s something you should handle & don’t.

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐥𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐥𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐥𝐮𝐞 𝐩𝐢𝐥𝐥:

This guy happens to be my last person I was successful with Labor Day weekend 2020 for his birthday . I wanted to move the relationship forward…he was not in that space with me.

However, he was amazing at handling needing the blue pill. At the time, he was turning 52 & it’s life.

So the first time we were together , he had some people over, & I came to his house, which was hours away from mine. About an hour from when he thought everyone was going to leave, he pulled me aside & said, “Tanja, I have to take a viagra, it’ll take 30 minutes to an hour to work, is it okay if I take it?”

We are all clear on what is happening & permission has been granted . We were very successful! AND I thought he was sweet & a bad mofo.

𝐂𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐥:

If you’re with someone for a couple to a few years….You have a daily routine down, with an SOP, & it’s good, and fun, and works…

Suddenly…he comes home with a prescription

Me: You don’t need those. Why did you get those?

He’d been cheating & he was running out of lies about being tired, having ate too much at a “networking event “ blah blah blah…. He realized he was only good for one pop a night & I was about to catch on.

I dang knew when he got the prescription

Guys, women seriously DO NOT care if you need the blue pill. I fully recommend it if you’re not sure if everything will work & it could be dicey due to nerves, stress, age, drinking etc. What’s incredibly mean, is if she’s being very nice to you & you won’t admit it or just let the night go.

I thought about carrying them myself…BUT I’ve been heavily coached by my male friends that this is HIS problem & he needs to handle his $h!t