5 Hidden Insecurities Men Have
5 𝑯𝒊𝒅𝒅𝒆𝒏 𝑰𝒏𝒔𝒆𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒊𝒕𝒊𝒆𝒔 𝒎𝒆𝒏 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆.
I’m sharing this because, as women, sometimes we have absolutely NO idea we’re even able to hurt the men we love & adore, at all, because they’re so dang tough & silent. Here’s the truth:
Emotional Intelligence is Sexy Not Weak
I was just having a conversation with a friend of mine. He told me he was in a constant search for someone for me.
I was like “Well, the unfortunate thing is that my emotional intelligence is like an eight-lane superhighway, and theirs is like a broken trike on a dirt road.”
He laughed & told me it didn’t matter how many times he read that message, it made him laugh. He was like “yeah… I’m just a monkey clanging cymbals over here.” (And sent me a meme of that.)
𝙒𝙖𝙣𝙣𝙖 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝙬𝙝𝙮 𝙝𝙚 𝙂𝙝𝙤𝙨𝙩𝙨 𝙤𝙪𝙩?
In this movie, the female character “Meg” is the one who cannot accept that she is in complete denial about being in love with “Hercules”
Fear Means you Don’t Feel Ready
𝙁𝙚𝙖𝙧 𝙢𝙚𝙖𝙣𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙮𝙤𝙪’𝙧𝙚 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙮 𝙛𝙤𝙧.
Negative emotions are indicators & let you know there’s something important for you to address right away, or you’re going to create & maintain blockages in your life. They are very powerful!
Maintaining Control of your Thoughts
If you are not maintaining control of your thoughts and emotions, someone else will! I'm living and breathing proof of that. There are people out there that love control, and want everyone else to think and believe exactly what they do! Know anyone like that?