"𝑼𝒑𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒆 𝑼"

Do you remember that song? It wasn't as popular as some of Beyonce's others, but it's actually one of my VERY favorites! AND I like a lot of her stuff!

This past week, I was asked my VERY favorite question by a suspicious gentleman.... "Why are you single?"

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 "𝐈’𝐯𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐁𝐮𝐬𝐲" 𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐘 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐬!

I was listening to Derrick Jaxn today, and he was spilling the tea, and giving the truth on what "I've been busy" actually means when a man says it.

𝐓𝐨𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐫𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐞 𝐚𝐧 𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐲 𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐥𝐨𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬!

If you haven’t noticed yet, tomorrow is Mother’s Day!

My respect goes out to EVERY Father who chooses to honor HIS child’s / children’s Mother on Mother’s Day!

“𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝒉𝒊𝒕𝒔 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒌𝒆𝒆𝒑 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒈”

Andy Frisella put an email out this morning titled that.

He went on further to say,

“𝑇ℎ𝑒 𝑒𝑥𝑝𝑒𝑐𝑡𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑖𝑠 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑘𝑒𝑒𝑝𝑠 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑛𝑔𝑟𝑦．．．𝐵𝑒𝑐𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑠𝑜 𝑎𝑛𝑔𝑟𝑦， 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑐𝑎𝑛’𝑡 𝑠𝑒𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑜𝑏𝑣𝑖𝑜𝑢𝑠…”

This is something I had already figured out years ago. The more you do, the more hits come. The more kids you have, the more hits come.

I’ve had to step back & evaluate how to articulate what actually gets my blood pressure up when people go negative in real life or on the internet.

It’s very limited in thinking, to me, that one would believe it’s merely because I don’t agree with them. Going there, actually removes themselves from accountability & the equation, which is also interesting to me.

It’s not that I disagree with what they say that’s irritating me. I don’t agree with a lot of things.

𝑻𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚 𝒊𝒔 𝒂 5/5 𝑷𝒐𝒓𝒕𝒂𝒍!

What does this mean?

What does 55 mean?

Is the patron Saint of lost causes & hopeless cases. You pray for his assistance in times of great need.

Should you ever find that you’re having a tiny bit extra negative energy around, you can call on Archangel Michael!

You can find this candle in grocery stores, Walmart, Christian & Catholic stores, metaphysical shops & online.

Lavender smells amazing and is known as a universal oil!

It assists with sleep, skin conditions, Anxiety, Stress, and muscle cramps…you name it!

It reminds me of the dad saying, “Put Windex on it” from the movie “My Big Fat Greek Wedding”

Lavender works just like that!

If you have an occupation where you touch people daily, go into their homes etc., my recommendation is you do this every night to heal your energy & aura, as well as, rid yourself of negative energy & attachments.

It also assists with relaxing yourself, sleep, and skin conditions.

Palo Santo - is a very spiritual wood used for clearing energy when you pray, meditate, or write out your affirmations!

You may get it in many forms: Oil to defuse, Sticks to burn, and Wax to melt. There’s probably even more ways I haven’t considered.

White Sage -

This is what I use to clear energy from my home. I open all the doors & windows, so the negative energy can leave.

𝑬𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒅𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒇𝒆𝒎𝒂𝒍𝒆 𝒔𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘 & 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔!

I was listening to Abraham Hicks this morning & she reminded me of this!

As females we are conditioned to put others before us whether we’re married with kids or not. Being selfish, displaying selfishness, appearing “forward” is generally frowned upon.

Are you where you want to be goal-wise at the moment?

If our vibration isn’t in alignment with what we are desiring, it doesn’t come. The universe won’t bring it. That little sucker will be “in escrow” until you’re ready!

𝑰 𝒘𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒂 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒗𝒚 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒗𝒊𝒆𝒘 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒓𝒆𝒄𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒍𝒚.

I was asked some very serious questions, because it is for a management position & I’d be responsible for developing human beings.

I must admit, I’m better at writing my answers out & I’m a lot quicker when I’m angry & it’s usually jokes.

This is exactly it!

Decide who you are & be that! You’ll end up lost, or a victim of society if you do it the other way.

There is no line of perfection to walk.

𝑰 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒏𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒆𝒅 𝒂 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒖𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒍 𝑰’𝒗𝒆 𝒈𝒐𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒏 𝑹𝑬𝑨𝑳𝑳𝒀 𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒓𝒚!

I can promise you, each time I've made a correction, adjustment, or change in my life it was due to emotion! Without it, most of us would stay little bumps on a log.

Emotion is often the inspiration to cause us to act and realize a change is even required to be made.

Think about it:

𝑷𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒆 𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒔𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖! 𝑪𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒔𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇!

So many of us are in marriages, relationships, & jobs because we’re afraid of leaving due to what people might think or say!

𝐓𝐚𝐧𝐣𝐚….𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧’𝐭 𝐝𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭!

You can’t run a marathon with no training.

You can’t lose weight.

You can’t train people.

You know nothing about Real Estate.

You know nothing about Event Planning.

You know nothing about running a business.

Who’s going to listen to you?

You can’t do all of that at the same time!

Я прощаю тебя, как Бог прощает тебя !

I had some faithful Russian clients return yesterday, who are supportive of me! They told me yesterday was a holiday called “Forgiveness Sunday.”

In my earlier days, I was a General Manager for Bally Total fitness & Fitness Connection. I helped open the original Fitness Connections in San Antonio & Austin. I also managed at retail companies such as Express & NY & Company.

I’m not new to management or leadership positions.

It’s always fascinating to find that you find the same kind of people working at places & the same type of personalities. It’s because no matter where you go, or what you’re doing, people are “peopley” & you are ALWAYS dealing with people no matter rank, income, or otherwise.