If he’s not coming at you the way you like….throw his a$$ right back in the pond.

He needs to be sent back like a steak that wasn’t cooked right!

If he loves you, wants to have sex with, or have sex with you again…he’s coming back! Just keep sending him back until he’s not treating you like a THOT, an option, or flat-out taking you for granted.

You 100% deserve a Killer Whale! 100%

All the little sayings & euphemisms are absolutely true! About valuing yourself & how you view yourself especially. Please don’t forget, I was over 200 lbs for a long time there is a lot of rewiring that has had to be done.

"𝑳𝒂𝒅𝒚 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒓𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒕𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒃𝒍𝒆, 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒅𝒐𝒏’𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆. 𝑨𝒏𝒅 𝒊𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒅𝒐𝒏’𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒂𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅 𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒃𝒖𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔." - Beth Dutton - “Yellowstone” Season 4 Episode 3

Beth says this to a “Karen” in a store who gets opinionated about how Beth is disciplining a boy she chooses to raise.

I must have screamed so dang loud “Yes!” That the neighborhood thought my dry spell was over!

If a man, worst case scenario, wants to have sex with you, wants to again, OR best case scenario, loves you….he’s coming back.

𝑇ℎ𝑎𝑡’𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑓𝑎𝑏𝑢𝑙𝑜𝑢𝑠 𝑛𝑒𝑤𝑠！

Just be careful which one of the above it actually is for.

Bruh …. No “healed woman“ is going to be down for, or fall for toxic behavior & antics. They just won’t. Thankfully, most men speak it or show it in some way, so detection isn’t difficult. The unhealed woman will ignore it & move forward anyway. It’s not that she didn’t pick up on it.

That, unfortunately, is the cold hard truth amongst all the bologna. They ain’t lying about THAT.

It doesn’t even matter what’s going on…they won’t do it. They may stay, but they won’t get married. It won’t matter how well you walk the line & what you suck up. When they’re shut down, they’re shut down AND 100% capable of going through all the motions. It’s alarming!

𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝑾𝑰𝑳𝑳 𝒔𝒆𝒏𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒏𝒆𝒘!

Prior to COVID, the information on Twin Flames was limited, but it was great and accurate information!

Since the pandemic, the information has been diluted, and everyone interested these days thinks it's a desirable relationship and a pinnacle soulmate connection.

It's a Divine Connection for sure, AND it's the MOST challenging spiritual growth process and journey. It's not a typical soul mate, "And they lived happily ever after" connection. The relationship is meant to expose your weaknesses and healing desiring to be done within you.

I was just having a conversation with a friend of mine. He told me he was in a constant search for someone for me.

I was like “Well, the unfortunate thing is that my emotional intelligence is like an eight-lane superhighway, and theirs is like a broken trike on a dirt road.”

He laughed & told me it didn’t matter how many times he read that message, it made him laugh. He was like “yeah… I’m just a monkey clanging cymbals over here.” (And sent me a meme of that.)

“𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙩𝙤𝙣𝙜𝙪𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙨 𝙣𝙤 𝙗𝙤𝙣𝙚, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙞𝙩 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙗𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙠 𝙗𝙤𝙣𝙚.”

This is a beautiful & insightful Italian proverb.

Personally, my mother attempted to teach me the sticks & stones thing….but the Italian proverb is actually true.

Words have so much power, that they literally can change the course of a person’s life in a millisecond!

In this movie, the female character “Meg” is the one who cannot accept that she is in complete denial about being in love with “Hercules”

𝐎𝐤𝐚𝐲 𝐋𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐞𝐬! 𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐡𝐢𝐦!

Since I got divorced, & crashed out a couple of other relationships, I‘ve developed a little litmus test to keep myself from being bamboozled!

So, if you’re trying to figure out if your heart is actually in it or not…Give this a shot!

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮?

I can tell you, I used to equate it to money pretty much only. Now, I know the money in your bank account doesn’t amount to anything particularly meaningful.

Andy Frisella put an email out last week saying, most millionaires he knew were actually stupid & couldn’t tell you the difference between “you’re” & “your.”

Well, you actually know the answer to this, & it’s usually a condescending joke….however, a lot of it is our hormones, because they cause our body to function & hormones control just about everything.

This is for the fellas out there in the dating world trying to level up with a woman!

Many of you want to express sentimental feelings or emotions, but have been taught it’s wrong or have a huge fear of rejection, so it’s paralyzing for you to move things forward in relationships or level them up!

If you permit me to assist, I will be glad to!